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SELFISH is a Philadelphia-based therapy and mental wellness coaching service dedicated to empowering individuals. Catering to emotionally responsible individuals--who seem to constantly find themselves doing more for others than themselves [especially Black millennial men and women] we address emotional self-neglect (aka people-pleasing) and promote self-care through targeted services like therapy and coaching.
Healing Through Being SELFISH:
A Program for Reclaiming Your Voice, Boundaries & Peace
For people who’ve spent their lives putting everyone else first—and are finally ready to stop betraying themselves.
Offered in two formats:
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1:1 Therapy or Coaching – Done with you weekly
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Group Coaching – For clients who don't want to wait for a 1:1 spot, with shared accountability & live support
Individual Therapy & Mental Wellness Coaching
Therapy
Mental Wellness Coaching
NOTE: THIS SERVICE IS ONLY FOR CLIENTS WHO ARE INSURED IN THE STATE OF PENNSYLVANIA. Culturally grounded therapy specializing in identity repair after trauma. Offered through Full Being Services: A Black Owned and Operated private practice in Philadelphia, I help clients stop self-betrayal, disrupt generational patterns, and rebuild their lives around their needs—not their obligations. Together, we’ll create space for your healing, wholeness, and self-respect to take root—on your terms. Fill out the contact information on the next screen and request to work with Odi. We’ll see if we’re a good fit—and if now’s your time to finally choose yourself, every time.
You’re not lazy. You’re just tired of carrying everything—emotionally, mentally, relationally. You show up for everyone else, but somewhere along the way, you forgot how to show up for yourself. If you’ve been stuck in a loop of people-pleasing, unclear boundaries, and self-abandonment, you’re not alone. I help burnt out helpers, internalizers, and cycle breakers finally start choosing themselves—without guilt, shame, or fear of being “too much.” You’re not broken. You’re just overdue for rest, truth, and relief. Lets get you started on your journey of choosing yourself first--today!
Group Coaching:
The SELFISH Masterclass Subscription
The affordable way to stop self-betrayal, break trauma patterns, and start choosing yourself—every time.
You know it’s time to do something different.
You’re tired of people-pleasing. Your boundaries are shaky (or non-existent). And every time you try to “get back to yourself,” you realize…
you’re not even sure who that is anymore.
You want guidance, structure, and healing support—
but right now, a $150 per session investment just isn’t realistic.
That’s exactly why I created this.
For $47/month, you’ll get trauma-informed coaching, tools, and real community support—at a price that makes self-prioritization actually possible.
🔥 Here’s What You Get Inside the Membership:
🧩 The SELFISH Curriculum™ – My complete 36-module self-paced course that mirrors the 1:1 program
📺 10+ Hours of On-Demand Content – Training on trauma, boundaries, self-trust, emotional regulation & more
📣 Biweekly Live Group Coaching Masterclasses – Get real-time guidance, support, and strategy in a private setting
❤️ Why People Love This Format
✅ It’s affordable
✅ It’s flexible—work through it on your own time
✅ It still gives you access to me through the group calls
✅ You’re not doing this alone—you’ll be part of a community of other people learning to choose themselves too
💭 Is This the Same as 1:1 Coaching?
No—but it’s the perfect place to start if you’re not ready to dive into weekly private sessions.
You still get structure. You still get strategy. You still get support.
And for less than the cost of one therapy session, you’re getting a full curriculum, live access, and tools you can use for life.
This is your way to start healing now, even if you’re not ready to go all in—yet.
🛠 Inside, You’ll Learn How To:
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Set boundaries without guilt
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Disrupt your trauma responses in real time
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Identify your needs, wants, and values
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Stop people-pleasing without losing your relationships
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Start choosing yourself daily—without apology
💳 Your Investment
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Just $47/month
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Cancel anytime, no long-term commitment
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Instant access to the SELFISH Curriculum + coaching replays
✨ The only requirement is that you’re ready to stop betraying yourself.
🚀 How to Get Started:
Step 1: Click the button below to join the Patreon
Step 2: Choose the $47/month membership tier
Step 3: Get immediate access to the curriculum, coaching calls, and private posts
Break the pattern. Be your whole self.
And if 1:1 isn’t in reach right now—this is your next best step.
Frequently Asked Questions
❓ Are You an Actual Therapist?
Yes. I’m a trained mental health professional with a decade of experience supporting clients through trauma, burnout, people-pleasing, and relationship wounds. My approach is clinical in depth, but real in delivery. I don’t just give you insight—I give you structure, strategy, and support.
❓ Are You a Licensed Therapist?
No, not yet—I'm currently completing the final educational requirements for full licensure in the state of Pennsylvania.
❓ If You're Not Licensed, Why Should I Trust You?
Great question. Licensure determines when a therapist can open a private practice—not whether they’re qualified to practice at all. I have well over 10,000 supervised clinical hours--and counting-- through my work at Full Being Services in Philadelphia, PA, where I’ve served individuals, couples, and families with trauma-informed care. I also operate under strict ethical guidelines and have clinical supervision for every client I serve.
I’m not a social media guru or mindset coach with a catchy slogan. I’m a clinically trained professional—doing this work, every single day.
❓ What Is the Difference Between Therapy and Life Coaching?
Therapy addresses the roots—your trauma history, emotional patterns, attachment wounds, and behavioral cycles. It focuses on healing and identity. Coaching helps with the branches—goals, habits, mindsets, and accountability.
My approach blends both. The SELFISH Program uses therapy-informed structure to help high-functioning but emotionally exhausted adults learn to stop betraying themselves, break trauma patterns, and put themselves first—without guilt, chaos, or confusion.
❓ How Much Are Your Sessions?
The 1:1 SELFISH Intensive is a 12-week private program that includes:
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Weekly 60-minute Zoom sessions
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Between-session text support
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Weekly trauma-informed homework
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Access to exclusive SELFISH tools and frameworks
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An option to continue beyond 12 weeks
The investment is $1,600 paid in full, or $150 per session on a weekly plan.
If you're not ready for 1:1 support, I also offer a group coaching program for $47/month hosted on Patreon. This includes biweekly live masterclasses, a 36-module self-paced course, and over 10 hours of recorded trauma-informed content.
❓ Do You Offer a Free Consultation?
Yes. I offer a 15-minute clarity call so you can ask questions, feel out the vibe, and determine if my approach is a good fit for your healing journey. No pressure, no pitch—just space to explore if this is the support you’ve been looking for.
[Email me at professor.odi@blkwlth.com, or use the button down below to book your free consult.]
Voices
Client Experiences
Changing my mindset has opened pathways I never knew existed. SELFISH helped me prioritize myself without guilt.
Jordan Davis
This therapy journey has been transformative! I feel empowered to live authentically.
Alexandra Chen
The coaching aligned with my goals; my mental wellness improved tremendously.
Marcus Anderson
I finally feel secure in my worth and authenticity, thanks to SELFISH.